Adolescents
Low Self-Esteem
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Does your teen have difficulty saying No to others out of fear or not being liked?
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Has she/he often engaged in self-defeating behaviors (e.g. drinking, smoking, sexual activity) to gain acceptance of his/her peers?
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Does your teen have a deep sense of inferiority? Difficulty accepting compliments?
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Has your teen used frequently self-disparaging remarks about her/his appearance, merits and abilities? Denies any positive attributes?
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Is your teen refusing to try new experiences?
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Have you observed that your child is often neglectful/quiet, cautious/fearful, pleasing/friendly, insecure/anxious?
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Do you think you might be using negative parenting methods?
If you have answered yes to any of these questions your teen might be suffering of unhealthy self-esteem. Having a teenager with a low self-esteem does not mean that you are not a good parent or that you did the wrong things when he/she was a kid. When teenagers struggle with issues such as poor grades, social awkwardness and the loss of friends during transition or adjustment to change, they can often question themselves and their self-worth. These behaviors should not be ignored. A poor self-esteem can lead to poor performance, which can set negative personal feelings. Over time they can develop a defeatist attitude that can lead to depression. Do not wait any longer! I can help your teen to develop a healthy self-esteem for a happier and more fulfilling life.
